As a avid reader, I have always been fascinated with Marilyn's personal library of books. She owned over 400 books at the time of her death which were documented and auctioned off by Christies in 1999. I am so excited to finally add one of these books to my collection.|
I am now the proud owner of her copy of "Rededication to Freedom"(1959) by Benjamin Ginzburg.
This book was part of Lot 555 from the Christies sale. It is a political book that claims the Communist menance in America has been largely a myth and it calls for an end to the government thought-control inspired by that myth.
Very interesting subject considering her experience with Arthur Miller and the House Committee on Un-American Activities in 1956. Video of Marilyn defending Arthur
The book has the official bookplate from the Chrisites auction on the inside. However, the most amazing part is what was discovered inside. When the original owner of the lot looked through the books, he found a business card inside the front of this one.
It was no ordinary card. It had the name Rabbi Robert E. Goldburg on one side and a handwritten note on the other.
Rabbi "Bob" Goldburg converted Marilyn to Judism and performed the jewish marriage ceremony between herself and Arthur Miller. He remained close to Marilyn as evidenced by a September 1961 letter that was auctioned off several years ago. Below I also included an interesting article where Rabbi Goldburg shares his thoughts about Marilyn.
The other side of the card is a note addressed to Arthur Miller. Rabbi Goldburg suggests a second book that was also released the same year and ends with "Best to you and Marilyn - Bob". So it turns out this book was given to Arthur Miller by Rabbi Goldburg who then gave it to Marilyn.
As told through her rabbi's newly-released letters
Reform Judaism Magazine Spring 2010
Years later, Rabbi Goldburg would tartly tell his congregation that no other act - neither his public denunciation of McCarthyism nor his other subversive political activities (which earned him a thick FBI file) - had gained him the same level of recognition as did converting Monroe and officiating at her wedding to Miller. Indeed, commentators at the time and historians since have not been kind to him. Morton Miller, Arthur's cousin, characterized Monroe's conversion as "perfunctory."
Rabbi Goldburg wanted the record to reflect that he took the process of conversion seriously and had not simply been wooed by Monroe's fame or sex appeal. Shortly after Monroe's death in the summer of 1962, he began to write letters to Dr. Jacob Rader Marcus, the head of the Reform Movement's American Jewish Archives in Cincinnati, setting out the facts of Monroe's conversion and marriage to Miller. Rabbi Goldburg requested that the letters be "put in a sealed envelope and opened some years later."
Here are excerpts from two of them, never before published.
August 24, 1962
Dr. Jacob R. Marcus
...In the late spring of 1956, I met with Arthur Miller at his home in Rox- bury, Connecticut. He had recently been divorced from his wife Mary Miller and told me of his plans to marry Marilyn Monroe. I had known Arthur for some years and his cousin Morton Miller, who also lived in Roxbury, was a member of this Congregation....Arthur said that Marilyn was interested in becoming Jewish and that they would like me to perform their wedding ceremony, in Roxbury, on July 1st. He made it clear to me that in no way did he make this demand on Marilyn...
I met Marilyn with Arthur at her apartment in New York at Sutton Place and 57th Street. I don't remember what I expected but I was struck by her personal sweetness and charm. She seemed very shy. [She] said that she had no religious training other than some memories of a Fundamentalist Protestantism which she had long rejected. She indicated that she was attracted to Judaism by being impressed with Jewish people that she knew, especially Mr. Miller. She said that she was aware of the great characters that the Jewish people had produced and that she had read selections from Albert Einstein's Out Of My Later Years....She indicated that she was impressed by the rationalism of Judaism - its ethical and prophetic ideals and its concept of close family life.
After that meeting we met a number of times and she read a few books that I gave her. These included What Is A Jew? by Morris Kurtzer, [Abram Leon] Sacher's History of the Jews, Milton Steinberg's A Partisan Guide to the Jewish Problem, and the Conversion Manual of the CCAR [the Reform rabbinic organi- zation Central Conference of American Rabbis]. We discussed the contents of these books, in part, and I attempted to answer her questions. Marilyn was not an intellectual person but she was sincere in her desire to learn. It was also clear that her ability to concentrate over a long period of time was limited. However, I did feel that she understood and accept- ed the basic principles of Judaism.
Because of the press publicity, in order to keep the marriage ceremony on July 1st a private one, Arthur and Marilyn decided quite suddenly to have a Justice of Peace perform the civil cere- mony two days before, in White Plains. They...believed that the photographers and press would then leave them alone so that the wedding would go off as scheduled....The place of the wedding was [also] moved from Roxbury to the home of Arthur's agent, Kay Brown, in Katonah, New York...
I stayed for the weekend with them in Roxbury...and we drove to Katonah on Sunday morning, July 1st. Before the wedding ceremony, I performed the Ceremony of Conversion which was witnessed by Arthur Miller, Kermit Miller (his brother), Morton Miller, Mr. and Mrs. Lee Strassberg, and Mr. and Mrs. Norman Rosten. Following the Ceremony of Conversion, the wedding ceremony took place. There were no representatives of the press, but Mr. Milton Green, at that time Marilyn's photographer and agent, took pictures of the wedding which he released to Life Magazine...
During the course of their marriage, I saw them on numerous occasions....[One year] the United Jewish Appeal [UJA] asked me to persuade Marilyn Monroe to be a speaker at the Fountainbleau Hotel in Miami Beach, Florida....Marilyn consented to...tell the assembly why she became Jewish and why she believed that Jewish institutions and Israel deserved support.
Just before the arrangements were completed for the three of us to fly to Miami, [UJA leaders] spoke to me.... Arthur Miller had recently been indicted for contempt of Congress [for refusing to acquiesce to demands of the McCarthy hearings] and they withdrew [his] invitation [only].... [Marilyn did not make an appearance either.]...
[Arthur and Marilyn] didn't attend synagogue services because they believed that such attendance would turn into a public spectacle. When Arthur's nephew [became a] bar mitzvah at our temple, Arthur came...but since the press knew of the Miller bar mitzvah they were on hand, as a result of which, at the last moment Marilyn decided to stay in Roxbury.
About a year later the American Friends of the Hebrew University invited Arthur Miller to speak in Philadelphia. He consulted me about this and I urged him to accept the invitation. Then I received a call asking me to urge Marilyn to attend...her presence could mean a greater fundraising for the Hebrew University. Marilyn consented to go and we drove down together. Arthur gave a very fine talk and Marilyn sat at the head table and was introduced.
In their home they observed Chanukah and Marilyn gave presents to Arthur's children. For two years I conducted a Passover service in Roxbury on the first night of [the] seder, with Arthur and Marilyn participating in the ceremony, at the home of Morton Miller.
After the divorce, Marilyn told me that she had no plans to renounce Judaism at any time. She said that it had nothing to do with the divorce and she remained on excellent terms with Arthur's children and Arthur's father...
I was in Europe when I read about her tragic death. I have always felt that she was an extremely lovely person who was not able to overcome the terrible emotional burdens which were part of her childhood and which were aggravated by tremendous fame...
Warm personal regards.
Rabbi Robert E. Goldburg
The Congregation Mishkan Israel Hamden, Connecticut
August 6, 1986
Although I didn't get to the CCAR at Snowmas, I am well and delighted to hear from you. I am glad that you have come down from the mountains, because it is certainly easier to breathe at sea level...
About Marilyn - most of what has been written about her is at best half- truths which [are] not "truth" and her memory has been exploited for obvious financial gain since she has become an international myth....No pressure was put on Marilyn to convert, by Arthur or me. She had negative feelings towards Christianity (her foster parents were rigid Fundamentalists) and positive feelings towards the Jewish people. She often identified with the "underdog" and at the same time had an enormous respect and admiration for intellectuals. She met Arthur while she was studying and acting in his plays as a student at the Actor's Studio, and besides Arthur, her "hero" was Albert Einstein...[who] represented for her the great scientist- humanist-Jew-Socialist-dissenter...
Marilyn was a very decent human being....It is true she had many psychological problems - lateness, alcohol (exaggerated), sleeping pills, a feeling of worthlessness, except for her looks - which made it difficult at times to live with her and/or work with her. Arthur did try to make a go of it for five years, and a year later, when Marilyn died, he said, and I agree with him: "With a little luck, she could have made it." We both believe that her death was accidental suicide. That also was the opinion of the late Dr. Marriane Kris, wife of Dr. Ernst Kris, Marilyn's analyst during the last years of her life...
...She took acting seriously and tried hard to perfect her craft. Her gift as a wonderful comedienne is evident especially in the movie Some Like It Hot. In her last film, The Misfits, by Arthur Miller, it is evident that she was no slouch in playing a dramatic role. At the same time, that particular role was very much like the real Marilyn: a sensitive girl who could not bear cruelty to animals, much less human beings.
I hope all this is what you are looking for. There is nothing confidential here although I have refused numerous offered invitations to write, speak, appear on T.V., etc., over the years. But I can't resist one of my favorite teachers' request.
With much respect and love.
Rabbi Robert E. Goldburg